Matchmaking for Los Angeles singles, 25+
No swiping.
Just Valeria,
and the one.
Valeria is your matchmaker in LA. You meet her on a video call, talk like you would with a friend who knows everyone, and she finds the person you've been hoping for. Built for single men and women 25 and older who want something that lasts.
Start talking now: no account, no card. Free until Valeria finds you a match.
Not for hook-ups. Not for one night.
For finding actual love.
actual.love is for people ready for a committed, lifelong relationship. If you're looking for something casual, this isn't the place, and Valeria will tell you so kindly.
How it works
A conversation, not a catalogue.
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Meet Valeria on a video call
No forms, no photo shoot, no bio to agonise over. Valeria asks about your life, your family, what you believe in and what you're looking for. You just talk.
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She finds your person
Valeria considers everyone near you: values, faith, children, lifestyle, temperament, and who you're likely to be drawn to. She introduces you to one person at a time, only when she'd bet on it. Photos stay hidden until you both say yes.
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Say yes. Swap numbers.
You each have 24 hours to say yes. Swap photos if you both want to. When you both say yes, you each see the phone, WhatsApp or email the other chose to share, and the rest is up to you. Nobody can contact you unless you both said yes.
Who is Valeria
“In every town there was a woman who knew everyone, and knew who belonged together. They called her the swatka. I'm her, for today.”
— Valeria
She listens.
People say more in ten minutes of real conversation than in a hundred profile prompts. Valeria remembers everything you tell her and picks up where you left off.
She's honest.
If you're not looking for something lasting, she'll tell you kindly that this isn't the place. Everyone here is serious about finding a partner for life.
She's an AI.
Valeria is an AI matchmaker with a face and a voice, and she'll always say so. What she's for is simple: getting two real people to meet.
Privacy, by design
What you tell Valeria stays with Valeria.
Calls aren't recorded
No audio or video of your call is stored. We keep an encrypted text transcript so Valeria can remember you. You can download or delete it any time.
Nobody browses you
There is no public profile and no feed. Only the people Valeria introduces you to see your first name and portrait, and only you decide who gets to talk to you.
Adults only, no tracking
18+ only. Once you swap numbers, your conversations are yours: actual.love never sees or keeps your messages. Anyone can be reported in one tap.
You're in control
You choose what to share, and you can change your consents, export your data or delete your account instantly from your settings.
Membership
You pay nothing until she finds you a match.
Talking with Valeria and her search are free. Only when she has found you a match do you decide whether to become a member and meet them. Nothing is ever charged automatically.
Monthly
$9/month
- Video calls with Valeria
- One hand-picked introduction at a time
- Exchange contact details when you both say yes
- Cancel any time, in one click
Annual
$99/year
- Everything in Monthly
- A full year for Valeria to find the one
- Works out at about $8.25 a month
- We remind you before it renews
Prices in USD. Memberships renew automatically until cancelled. See the subscription terms.
Los Angeles
Made for dating in LA.
actual.love is an AI matchmaking service for singles 25 and over in Los Angeles who want a committed relationship. Instead of swiping, you talk with Valeria on a video call. She introduces you to one compatible person at a time who lives within reach of you, so a first date never means two hours on the 405.
Valeria introduces people across the city and the county: Santa Monica, Venice, Mar Vista, Culver City, West LA, Westwood, Brentwood, Beverly Hills, West Hollywood, Hollywood, Los Feliz, Silver Lake, Echo Park, Downtown LA, Koreatown, Highland Park, Eagle Rock, Pasadena, Glendale, Burbank, Studio City, Sherman Oaks, Encino, Manhattan Beach, Hermosa Beach, Redondo Beach, El Segundo and Long Beach.
Questions
Before you call.
Who is actual.love for?
Single men and women in Los Angeles, 25 and older, who are ready for a committed, lifelong relationship: people who want a partner, a family, a home together. If you're looking for something casual, the swipe apps will serve you better. Valeria introduces people of any gender who are looking for each other.
Is actual.love available outside Los Angeles?
Valeria makes introductions in Los Angeles and LA County first. Anyone elsewhere is welcome to talk with her for free and join the waitlist; she'll get in touch when she can introduce you to someone near you.
How is actual.love different from dating apps?
There is no swiping and no profile to browse. You talk with Valeria for a few minutes on video, and she introduces you to one person at a time whom she thinks you'll both want to meet. You pay nothing until she has found you a good match with a real person.
Do I need to turn on my camera?
Yes. actual.love happens on video: with Valeria, and later on your dates. Seeing and being seen keeps everyone honest. Your browser will ask for permission first, and you can turn the camera off at any moment.
Is Valeria a real person?
No. Valeria is an AI matchmaker, rendered live as a video avatar. The people she introduces you to are very real.
How does Valeria decide who to introduce?
She weighs what matters for a lasting relationship: values, faith, children, family, lifestyle, what each of you is looking for and your dealbreakers, and, with your consent, who you're each likely to be drawn to. The details are in our privacy policy.
What happens to what I say?
Your call is not recorded. The conversation is turned into an encrypted text transcript and a private matchmaking profile that only Valeria uses. You can read your profile, download everything, or delete it all from your settings.
When do I pay?
Only once Valeria has found a good match for you with a real person, and we tell you when she has. Until then your interview with her and her search are free. When she has an introduction, you see who it is and why she chose them, and you decide whether to become a member. We never charge you automatically.
Can I cancel?
Any time, from your account, in a couple of clicks. You keep your membership until the end of the period you've paid for.